Steven,
38 years old, computer consultant
I was bored and depressed! Thirty-eight
years old, single, with a great job
and I'm lonely. My friends are all
married. I was burnt out on the dating
scene. Sure there's been women in
my life but none of them ever lasted.
A female friend (I've lots of them)
told me I had an intimacy problem
and needed therapy. Abel 2 Sex
Counseling proved to be the right
antidote to what was ailing me. Once
I confronted my fears, I could take
a risk on a relationship.
P.S. Cynthia and I are getting engaged
next month. |
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Anonymous,
71 years old, retired Senator
My second wife is 23 years younger
than me and very beautiful. Although
she is patient and never complains,
I feared I couldn't measure up in
bed. Against my doctors wishes, I
even tried Viagra. The side-effects
scared me. At this point, I recognized
I needed a sex therapist. This person
had to be reputable, trustworthy,
and a top-ranked professional. Being
well-known required assurance of complete
privacy and discretion. No media hounds.
I wanted someone who kept a low profile.
By chance I located the right therapist
in Dr. Arden. Take it from this "born
again 71 year old", therapy gives
you your confidence back. |
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Jack,
44 years old, photographer
A year ago my wife said she was tired
of taking care of me. I 'd become
another kid in the house. She wanted
a divorce. "To hell with her,"
I figured. I look a good ten years
younger. Young, hot babes will dig
me. No more mother-types for me. Got
to admit, the first time with one
of my fantasy babes was a flop. Couldn't
stay hard! The girl just wanted me
to do her. What gives?? No romantic
stuff to get me going. When I met
Dr. Arden in therapy, I told her I
wasn't feeling anything in sex. To
my surprise, the Doc knew exactly
what I was going through. Working
with the right surrogate helped me
to make the changes in myself. My
sex life is different now. So much
more manly and potent. |
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Kevin,
23 years old, student
How could I not have any interest
in sex? My physician said my hormone
levels are normal. I go on-line to
try to meet women. When they get sexually
suggestive or want to meet me, I freeze
up. No one wants to just chat anymore.
My physician's referral to Abel 2
Sex Counseling Center and Dr.
Arden made a difference. In a few
weeks I was feeling sexy again. |
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David,
46 year old, lawyer
“ I woke up one day and realized
my life was a disaster. I rarely dated,
had few friends and never had sex.
My work was my life. When I thought
about dating, I was afraid because
of my lack of sexual experience. Close
friends suggested a prostitute. That
scared me...too cold and mechanical,
and what of diseases. The smartest
thing I ever did was surrogate therapy
at Abel 2 Sex Counseling Center. The treatment
gradually and comfortably helped me
to my goal. The surrogate I worked
with was caring, pretty and intelligent.
It was very intimate...not clinical
at all.” |
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Anonymous,
28 year old, professional basketball
player
“You’ve heard the stereotype of
the oversexed basketball player. That
may be alot of guys I played with,
but it’s not me. Since junior high
school, basketball has always been
my life. No time for girls. My love
was basketball. When I became successful,
it finally dawned on me what I was
missing. The women come on to me all
the time. It gets me nervous. How
could I take them on. They’ll know
I don’t know what I am doing. Fear
of discovery kept me from dealing
with it. Learning about sex therapy
brought me to the office of Dr. Arden.
Her guarantee of confidentialty made
all the difference. She and her staff
were there for me. I’m a new man
now.” |
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Henry,
68 year old, retired businessman
“Since my wife died three years
ago, I’ve had two relationships.
Both times I didn’t get an erection.
The Viagra the doctor prescribed didn’t
work. I was upset because I work just
fine by myself. “It didn’t make
sense,” I said to Dr. Arden in sex
therapy. Her suggestion I work with
a surrogate partner, at first took
me aback, but it was a wise choice.
I came to have a better understanding
of aging sexuality. The surrogate
helped me acquire the confidence to
ask for what I need from my partner.
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Paul,
43 year old, scientist
“I thought so much about performing
sex, I killed it. Some things you
can’t analyze. A harsh lesson to
have learned at my age. At least,
I can now abandon myself to pleasure
without checking myself out.” |
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Jeffrey,
33 year old, stock trader
“Ever since I can remember, I came
too fast. When I was younger, I used
to keep my “hard-on” after coming
so I could satisfy my girlfriends.
No such luck anymore! My last girlfriend
broke up with me. Fortunately, therapy
taught me why I had this problem and
not just how to solve it. Jerk that
I was, by anticipating sex I was turning
myself on ahead of time. I was ready
to pop just putting a condom on.”
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Joe,
39 year old, plumber
“My girlfriend and I were going
together for two years. One day, she
tells me she wants out. She thinks
she’s in love with her boss. A year
later, I was still a mess. Tried dating
and hooking up with some women I met
at a club. Couldn’t do it. Felt
like crap. Therapy got my confidence
back. I feel like a man again.”
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